Sid and I don’t really celebrate this day. He teases me about getting me flowers or surprising me with jewelry. But he wouldn’t dare! So this Valentine’s Day, being a Thursday, was treated as any other Thursday. Since my husband is a consultant, he travels Monday to Thursday; so on Thursdays, we usually go out to dinner. It’s usually Thai food at a simple-yet-cozy restaurant behind our house. Yesterday, we decided to change it up a bit and went to an Asian fusion place, which is a wee bit fancier (you know, $2 per dish fancier). But hey, he came straight from the airport in his boring corporate attire, and I went unshowered after Yoga. So it doesn’t count as a celebration.
After we ate dinner, we stopped by our neighborhood cafe. He asked me if I wanted anything, but I declined. He bought a really nice pastry to go. As he paid, he said, “This is for Anna.” I was, frankly, quite surprised. We have known Anna for around 1.5 years. She is quiet and inconspicuous. She wears unflattering pants most days and has extremely short hair that doesn’t do much for her, except make her look somewhat older than she is. But her small eyes twinkle when she smiles. And she always has a “hello” for us. She is also non-judgmental. I am pretty sure she has heard us arguing a couple of times, but she’d never show that she knows.
The cutest part was how awkwardly he presented her the cake and said, “Here’s some dessert for you,” and walked off quickly. My guess is he was shy of meeting her eyes. He’s uncomfortable showing his emotions to others. So I said, “Happy Valentine’s Day, Anna.” She smiled broadly and her eyes twinkled.
For the last 1.5 years, she has been a part of our lives. You see, Anna is the receptionist at our building and takes the evening shift, from 3PM-11PM everyday. When she’s on leave, we miss her. I always stop for a quick chat, but other than that, I don’t give her a real thought honestly. I am glad my husband did.
You know the moment that you look at your spouse and feel your heart swell with love and pride all over again? It happened to me on Valentine’s Day 2013 when my husband bought a piece of cake for another woman.
Tara
February 15, 2013
Lovely post, Sid is so sweet.
Henri
February 15, 2013
Thanks Tara! I know he is, isn’t he? One of those remarkable moments life bring us.
Satbir
February 15, 2013
Very well written Ekta!!! Although all of the real work was done by Sid 😉
Cheers!! and happy Valentine’s day
Henri
February 15, 2013
You said it! Sid did all the work of course. But as a smitten wife, I am doing my bit too! Happy Valentine’s wishes to Sukh and you too!
Titaxy
February 15, 2013
lovely!
Henri
February 15, 2013
Hey thanks for stopping by and reading my post AND taking the time out to leave a comment.
Kavita
February 15, 2013
As always ekta, loved reading your post! Got me teary-eyed this one! Happy valentines to u and sid!!
Henri
February 15, 2013
Awww Kavita, thanks so much! I am sure Sid is somewhere cringing in embarrassment, LOL.
Kangana
February 15, 2013
wonderful, yet again!
Henri
February 15, 2013
Thank you, once again 🙂
Preeti
February 15, 2013
Really sweet !!
Henri
February 15, 2013
Thanks Preeti!
Krupa
February 15, 2013
That have me goosebumps!! Way to go Sid!!
Henri
February 15, 2013
Thanks Krups! I know, such a touching moment, na?!
Karishma
February 15, 2013
Very good read… Sid is very sweet…
vivek
February 16, 2013
A really sweet gesture.A very good thought.
Charisma
February 16, 2013
Beautiful Gesture by Sid! Beautifully expressed and shared by you!
Achalaa
February 16, 2013
how thoughtful!
Henri
February 17, 2013
Hi Achalaa, thank you for stopping by and reading my post, and taking the time out to leave a comment. Truly appreciate it.
Anjali
February 17, 2013
I just read this our loud to my hubby:-) and his eyes twinkled.
Bina Mathew
February 17, 2013
Well written Ekta. I’ m really not surprised at my nephew’s caring ways… He is an amazing guy!
Smita Bammidi
February 17, 2013
you are an exceptional writer..ekta..and so well meaning as a person..
Aditi
February 18, 2013
way to go Sid..
Preeti
February 18, 2013
🙂 🙂
Shetal Joshi
February 19, 2013
this was sweet Ekta v well ‘understood’ and written by you, and v well ‘given’ by Sid
Anita Jacob
February 22, 2013
lovely…you are such a beautiful person Sid..and you Ekta for recognising it! And as usual so well written..
Jaikumari Rajenesh
February 22, 2013
The Siddharth I always knew …Some people never change! Love to you both…
Apoorva
February 22, 2013
I actually really liked the writing here. The way you built up and closed was quite an aha!
Alpa
February 22, 2013
Such a sweet gesture, way to go Ekta for giving us the pleasure of reading ur thoughts.
Nidhi
February 22, 2013
Picturesque narration
aanchal
October 6, 2013
maam i came across your blog accidentally, and think that i am relatively young to relate to certain emotions talked about here….but what you write is simple yet so marvelous that it brought tears to my eyes and i couldnt help myself from reading more ….cheers 🙂
Henri
October 7, 2013
Hey Aanchal, thank you for reading and taking the time out to comment…hope you will continue to follow my blog! You can subscribe to my posts and get them in your email!
Simi
November 9, 2013
Great writing! Definitely hitting subscribe. 🙂
Simi
Henri
November 9, 2013
Hi Simi, thank you for visiting my blog and taking the time out to comment. And of course for subscribing!! Now, let me go to yours. Hope to hear more from you on other posts 🙂
Henri
February 13, 2017
Reblogged this on From Outside The Mall and commented:
It’s time to reblog this and remind myself that I have a good man in my life!
Remember Me
February 13, 2017
Henri you are a blessing, I have declalred today a ‘B Day’ as you will see from my Blog a little later. Maureen woke at 5 am and I have been singing ByThe Light Of the Silvery Moon as we smooched in the bedroom. Its a full moon at the moment and that might just explain her presentation!
Henri
February 14, 2017
Can’t wait for your post! Singing in the moonlight sounds perfect!! Thank you 😎