My blog has been post-less for four months. I wasn’t feelin’ it. My regular readers were beginning to get concerned. Heck, I was beginning to get a little concerned. So my friend Anju sent me a 30-day challenge. I am gonna do it! So here’s day one.
1. Be kind to the invisible people: This is about taking time out to acknowledge and form a relationship with those who would otherwise be invisible in this world. Take your pick – it could be the service providers like waiters, bus drivers, receptionists, etc. Or it could be people who are marginalized because of their body size, appearance, socio-economic status, color, sexuality, religious beliefs, etc. Basically, anyone that your reference group would normally not acknowledge! Our world is so filled with judgement. We’re constantly dismissing people for being too poor, dumb, fat, ugly, stupid, etc. So if I see you having a genuine moment with someone you wouldn’t necessarily need to, I would really adore you! One of the reasons I love my husband is because he taught me an important lesson this Valentine’s Day.
2. Cook and clean for me: I hate cooking. I hate eating out. So if you feed me home-cooked vegetarian food, I will be yours forever. And cleaning means tidying up after me, loading the dishwasher, folding my laundry, taking out the recycling, etc. Not even every day. Just once in a way. And not all of it. Just some of it. One if it? No? Whaaa!
3. Hang out with me: I miss having roommates. I have a husband who is never around. Some days I just miss having someone around to do nothing with. You know, have a drink, watch shows, go shopping, chill in the hot tub…and after a few hours, go to different rooms and read/do whatever we want. Basically, be around, without having to talk all the time. Yes, Sid and I do this often. But it sucks because it’s usually on the weekend, and I like to go out on weekends. Weekdays, I like them to be low-key. A pity he’s never there!
4. Buy me junk jewelry: I am a sucker for accessories. Necklaces, earrings, rings, belts, etc. I love them all. I like colors and metal and big and chunky stuff! The bolder, the better.
5. Read my blog and leave me comments: A lot of my self-worth comes from writing. When someone reads my blog and comments on it, I feel validated. Even if it is not in agreement with my post; as long as it’s respectful, you will get into my A list.
There, I’m pretty easy to please. And let me tell you, I thought this was going to be easy. But it took 4 hours to write this post! Wow, I am rusty. I hope it gets better. I have exams and submissions coming up from next week. I don’t want to break the 30-day challenge! So are you ready to show me some lovin’?
Shivangi
November 21, 2013
Love your writing ! Keep it up girl
Henri
November 21, 2013
Thank you girl!
Jina
November 21, 2013
Totally agree with 1. Good list Henri..and happy to see you back. I missed reading what you write.
Henri
November 21, 2013
And where’s your blog?! You haven’t written anything in a while either!! And did you change the name of the blog?
Sudeshna
November 21, 2013
Insightful as always! While you’re at it, did you consider participating in NaNoWriMo? Going by your writing, we would have a nice novel by the end of November.. 🙂
Henri
November 21, 2013
On step at a time Sudeshna, one step at a time. May be during the holidays! Where’s your blog? Why is it hidden?
Kaajal
November 21, 2013
I have saved your pointers and am going to make a serious attempt too.
cupitonians
November 22, 2013
Happy first post after ages birthday to you! You will do fine. It took me ages as well and then it just becomes a good habit! So glad to see you show up on my blog field!
Henri
November 22, 2013
Well, I have only you to thank for it! You were dominating my blogfield with such diverse posts! I am already itching to write day 2 😉 But may be in the morning. I have exams! What am I doing…! Lol
cupitonians
November 22, 2013
When you have the urge to write, don’t stop. You’ll find you’re making up blog posts in your head all the time. I use the wordpress app sometimes to save ideas as drafts. It’ll be easier for you later.
Krupa Andrews
November 22, 2013
Just chilling with you at home sounds like fun. Wish I’d done that when you were around!
Henri
November 22, 2013
Oh, how I wish we’d done that! Well…soon. Hopefully. Come visit us!!
theglasslantern
November 22, 2013
I know how you feel, I’ve neglected my blog a bit lately because I write a lot for my doctorate… Missed reading your posts though- you are my fellow consulting widow in a different part of the world! Great to have you back
Sid
November 22, 2013
I shall work at nos. 3, 4, and 5. But the world must know that #6 is to show you YouTube music videos of sad country songs!
palak
November 22, 2013
I would like to buy you blogeshwari…by hook or crook, i want to get you! But on the flip side you may already be mine – so what to do…..
palak.
Meera
November 22, 2013
Yay !!! You’re back..as usual it’s a refreshing read and I hope someday soon we will be able to spend time together…miss those days
Sid
November 22, 2013
#4 doesn’t always work. Can backfire if you have my taste in jewelry!
Anar Shukla
November 26, 2013
This reminded me of the saturday we spent in EI working on an LSA project and then danced our heads off on ‘Salaam -e- Ishq”
Parul
December 4, 2013
Lol..i totally agree with #4. I keep giving jhumkas/dangling earrings to all my friends!
Glad you’re back :-). Missed you!